She Will Be Missed...

Sondra, or aka Ilder, had passed away unfortunately... She was in tremendous pain before the machine was shut down (from some of her friends)...

The funeral procession will leave for Mandai Crematorium at 9am later this morning...

Yesterday was a very sad day in the blogosphere... As u noe, the sg blogosphere is a close knitted community... Everyone expressed their deepest condolences... Coincidentally, many are clearing their leave and having their year end holiday, so some, still do not know the news...

The deceased's sister sent out mass smses to her contacts, breaking them the saddening news... Ilder was beyond reach for weeks, and many were worried...

Sondra was one of the famous bloggers in Singapore... While i do not know her personally unlike the rest of the bloggers do... I find it so difficult to know someone, who will never blog ever again... No new entries are going to appear... Not that her blog is closed like most of the other female famous bloggers who couldnt take anymore humiliation due to their fame, its that she couldnt anymore...

It is not the entries... It is the connection that you noe you will never see again...

I follow many blogs faithfully, and i haf to say, she is not one of them... And as much as I feel very sorry for the loss, i do feel fortunate for not reading her blog from yrs back... Coz knowing e weak emo person i am, i knoe i will be greatly affected...

Her mum jus recovered from cancer not long ago... She just found love and intend to move to UK early next year with her love and work there... She had many concerns about leaving her family behind... Many encouraged her to go, but unfortunately, she cant anymore, even if she wishes to...

It is extremely sad that when a person just found new love at a young age of 28, death took everything away... She still had so many things yet to fulfill...

I guess, life's really vulnerable eh? No matter how healthy u try to live your life, how hard you try to earn your shinny pennies... Some things just happen when you least knoe about it...

Just dun take wat you haf for granted...

Jus a few days ago, a new baby is born into the family of our famous blogger... But jus a few days later, a life is taken away... I guess this is what you call a life cycle...

I shudder to think about it...

Sigh...